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We are in the May 23 issue of Woman’s World magazine!



I usually walk every morning for 45 minutes around our neighborhood. On May 17  I briskly walked to the Von’s supermarket to purchase a copy of Woman’s World magazine. I was informed by the staff of the  magazine that my story was featured in the May 23 issues and it would hit the news stand that day. As I was walking I was was trying to recall the questions the reporter, Kathy Fitzpatrick asked me this past February. We chatted about many events of my past.

I arrived at 6:30 and went to the magazine stand, but the magazine issue was for May 16. I asked the grocery checker if they had received the May 23 issue and she said the magazine gal had not yet arrived. I explained that I had been  interviewed by Woman’s World magazine, and they had published my story in the May 23 issue. She then asked me what did they write about. I then explained my story of being a parent to my granddaughters while our daughter deployed to Afghanistan. She looked at me and then said “I never thought about how  single military parents would do with their children when deployed. “ Wow, that’s something to think about.”

I think most people aren’t aware of what military single parents have to go through.

I then walked  back home. I waited until later that evening to walk back to the market.  After Alan an I  ate dinner, we then walked to the market.

As soon as we arrived at the store we booth went to the the magazine rack display near the check out stand. We each picked up our own magazine. I flipped through the pages so quickly until I found our article, and on page 23  Homefront Heros section ,the title of the story-  A Grandma’s call to duty.  The picture of Alan and I with an additional picture of Ivie, Erin and Bailey. I read through  the article in the store, hoping the story would stay true to our experiences. The article touched on all the things I shared with the reporter. I was so pleased with our story. The reporter expressed how we felt during that time of deployment, along with our goal of staying positive.

It’s strange reading about  your past experiences. It’s all most as is if it’s not really you, but it did happen to us.

I hope our story will bring awareness to all those families supporting their military loved one during deployment.

THANK YOU WOMANS WORLD of publishing our story!

How did I become a Mom of a child serving our Military?




With no warning I became a mom of a military child. Over 15 years ago when my daughter, Erin joined the Air Force. My family was not a military family. My grandpa served in World War I, but he never really spoke about being the military. I was unfamiliar of what military life was all about.

Our daughter was in her second year of college when she came home from school that day and informed my husband she had joined the Air Force.  I was in shock!  I though she was stressed out from school. She was a child that did see everything in black and white. She use to get upset when kids in her class did not follow the rules!  I did remember when she was in grammar school at parent teacher conference the teacher informing me that Erin tested with high skills with following procedures and she did have difficulty seeing things in the grey area. This is why today she has been so successful in her career.

Erin reassured my husband and I that she had considered joining the military service when she was a freshman in high school, even though she never mentioned it to us. She searched all branches of the military and felt the Air Force was the one for her. I know there are many mothers just like myself, that have experienced their child’s sudden enlistment to the military. Its very surprising, and as a mother you have many mixed emotions. They are being responsible but, it’s their safety you are worried about.

But as a mother our job is  to support and encourage our children to follow their own dreams. And sometimes those dreams can be difficult for mothers, I know I had many concerns. I think we never really disconnect that umbilical  cord.

What can you say, when your child wants to be  being responsible, feels pride for our Country and wanted to protect the people of our Country.

Many things have changed over the years since our daughter  joined the Air Force. Our daughter married, had two children, moved 5 times, our Country went to War, she divorced, deployed to Afghanistan, remarried and will redeploy this fall. Here is her picture when she was informed of her  promotion to Master Sergeant. We as a family are so proud of her.

It’s been an interesting journey having our daughter in the military. My husband and I have faced many challenges and during those those times we have experienced some of the most rewarding times of our lives.

I hope those military moms out there know how much their children truly appreciate their support. My daughter tells me all the time. we all know military life can be very stressful for everyone concerned, but when it’s you calling you must follow your heart.

Cheers to my fellow military moms!

We are the Force behind our Force.